How to File for Divorce Without a Lawyer
Many people file for divorce on their own to save money and keep control of the process. This guide walks through the major steps and the paperwork most courts require.
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Understand the type of divorce
Divorces are generally contested or uncontested. An uncontested divorce, where both spouses agree on the major terms, is usually faster and far easier to handle pro se.
Gather the required documents
- A petition or complaint for divorce.
- A summons to notify your spouse.
- Financial disclosures where your state requires them.
- Any parenting plan or support worksheets if children are involved.
File and serve
You file your petition with the appropriate court and then formally serve your spouse, often using a proof of service document. Deadlines and service rules vary by state, so confirm your local requirements.
Helpful court resources
Frequently asked questions
Can I get divorced without a lawyer?
Yes. You can file and complete a divorce pro se, especially when it is uncontested. Courts provide self-help forms and most steps can be handled on your own.
What documents do I need to file for divorce?
You typically need a petition or complaint for divorce, a summons, financial disclosures, and any parenting or support documents if children are involved.
How long does a divorce take?
Timelines vary by state and whether the divorce is contested. Many states impose a waiting period, so an uncontested divorce can still take a few months.