Child Custody: A Guide for Self-Represented Parents
Child custody cases are among the most important matters a parent can face. This guide explains the basics so you can approach your case with confidence.
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Types of custody
- Legal custody — the right to make major decisions for the child.
- Physical custody — where the child primarily lives.
- Joint custody — shared between both parents.
- Sole custody — granted primarily to one parent.
What courts consider
Courts decide custody based on the best interests of the child. Judges weigh factors like stability, each parent's involvement, the child's needs, and the ability to cooperate.
Documents and preparation
You may need a custody petition, a proposed parenting plan, and supporting records. Keep a calm, child-focused tone in every document and at every hearing.
Helpful court resources
Frequently asked questions
What does the court consider in a custody case?
Courts decide custody based on the best interests of the child, weighing stability, each parent's involvement, the child's needs, and the parents' ability to cooperate.
Can I handle a custody case without a lawyer?
Yes. Many parents represent themselves in custody matters. Courts provide forms, and a clear, child-focused parenting plan goes a long way.
What is a parenting plan?
A parenting plan is a written schedule and set of rules describing how parents will share time and make decisions for their child. Many courts require one in custody cases.